Mothers’ Day
Scripture Reading: Is 7:13-17; Heb 9:1-11; Mt 1:20b-23
Reflections from a Monk
Happy Mothers’ Day! So, you say this isn’t Mothers’ Day according to the civil calendar? So maybe I should say: Happy Feast Day! But today isn’t the Feast of the Icon of the Theotokos of the Sign on the Orthodox Calendar either. So what’s going on here, you might ask. Good question. The usual celebration of the Feast of the Icon of the Theotokos of the Sign falls on November 27th and we used to celebrate it on that day. However, the texts for the feast on that day are about a particular event in Russian history and do not relate to the meaning of the icon per se but rather to a miraculous event associated with the icon. This is not unusual in our tradition, and indeed we could still celebrate that feast on November 27th since it is also not unusual for various festal celebrations to occur on more than one day during the year if several events associated with the theme or individual are particularly note-worthy. Take for example saints Climacus, Mary of Egypt and Palamas, who are remembered on the Sundays in Lent and also on particular days during the year. Also Saints Herman and Innocent of Alaska, among many others, have more than one feast day.
We moved the Feast of the Theotokos of the Sign to the last Sunday in October for a number of reasons. First, the November date is close to Thanksgiving and to the Feast of the Entry of the Theotokos into the Temple. We often found ourselves combining those events which in a sense lessens the celebration of each one. Since the Feast of the Theotokos of the Sign is the patronal feast of our Sisters’ Monastery we decided to find another date for that celebration so it could stand alone and serve more effectively as a community celebration. We ultimately settled on the last Sunday of October. By doing this it also allows us to focus on the intrinsic meaning of the icon without diminishing the significance of that particular event in Russian history remembered in November.
So what is the intrinsic meaning of this icon? If we look at the image in the nave dome, or on the icon stand at the entrance of this temple, we see an image of the Theotokos and superimposed in the center of that image is an icon of Jesus Christ. The icon of the Theotokos of the Sign depicts the centrality of Jesus Christ to the life of the Theotokos. It also serves as a model for us by showing us symbolically that for a Christian, Christ must be at the center of our lives, just as he was the center of Mary’s life. The message we can draw from this image is that we are to live as Mary did, with Jesus Christ at the center of our lives.
But this is not the only message of this icon. The Divine Liturgy contains a phrase in the Anaphora addressed to God that is based on the Gospel of St. John (3:16): “You loved the world so much that you gave your only Son, so that those who believe in him will not perish, but will have everlasting life.” This is the centerpiece of our Christian faith, however, understanding and identifying with God’s love can be difficult since it is beyond our human experience. The incarnation breaks down that barrier. This is what makes our Christian faith so special, it is based on the incarnation, God becoming human to experience and identify with our human condition so that we can come to understand better his love for us. Jesus Christ shows us the face of God. This was made possible because Mary so loved her son that:
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She gave him life.
She nurtured him.
She guided him as he was growing up.
She followed him and his teachings.
She stayed true to him even though she may have felt rejected.
Remember the incident when Jesus is teaching and a message is given to him that his mother and brothers and sisters wanted to see him and he responded: who are my mother and brothers and sisters? Those who hear the word of God and do it. Maybe Mary could be forgiven for possibly feeling slighted and dismissed by that comment. But when Jesus was hanging on the Cross, who was there? Not all the disciples nor all those he taught – No it was Mary his mother.
The image of this icon, and many other icons of Mary and Jesus, shows us God’s love in human terms so that we can understand it and live it ourselves. A Mother’s love for her son (or daughter) is special. Its not about sex, its about an intimacy that is so deep that it can defy description. But we can witness it and feel it and know it and thus give it also. God so loved the world that he gave us the example of Mary to teach us about his love. And we have near us our own mothers to also teach us this. What better way to express the joy of this feast than to exclaim: Happy Mothers’ Day!
Most Holy Theotokos, pray to God for us that we may learn from you and from all our mothers what the human expression of God’s love looks like and strive to emulate it. Amen.


