The Communities of New Skete

April 25, 2008

Fiery Start to Holy Week

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On Lazarus Saturday a fire on the other side of the mountain moved up and onto our property coming within 300 yards of the puppy kennel. The Forest Rangers and crews from four towns were on it. Brothers Luke, Marc, Chris, Ambrose and I, along with Marc’s brother-in-law and nephew who where were visiting, joined the fire line for about three hours to help halt its spread. It came within 20 ft. of the head of the hiking trail from the north east.

Fire on Property Fire on Property Photos of the fire

We thank God that the wind was in our favor, but when it occasionally whipped around with heat was so intense I had to turn my back and cover my nose with my T-shirt. Three of us watched for hot spots and missed Palm Sunday vigil. A new ranger crew came at about 7 pm and patrolled all night, cutting burning trees which might have fallen and straddled the line. No one panicked throughout the event. Brothers John & Peter had plans to evacuate the pups to the nuns if needed and a engine from one of the fire companies parked right by the church as insurance. We supplied two big thermoses of coffee and snacks for the night patrol. A couple of black bears, one with a cub fled the advance along with some fowl. The smell is still very much in evidence. The woods will recover, but it looks very spooky.

All that aside, we are enjoying the mild weather and it’s nice to see some things starting to bloom in time for Pascha.

- Brother Stavros

April 20, 2008

No Strings Attached

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Scripture Reading: Zc 9:9-12, 16-17a; Ph 3:10-4:1; Jn 12:1-19

Reflections from a Monk

The boys of summer are at it again, the baseball season is here. In the spring, everyone thinks their team has a chance to go all the way. Crowds are out for opening day. Kids and adults are down on the field seeking autographs of their favorite stars. It’s a time of hope and expectation. But as the season wears on through its 162 games, those hopes fade for many of the teams and their fans. And some star players who had great success in years past may be struggling this year. When that happens the fans can turn fickle and the cheers turn into jeers. Alex Rodriguez of the New York Yankees has experienced that roller-coaster ride. Great years and wild fan support followed by leaner years and fans’ hostility.

As we enter Holy Week we are greeted in this morning’s Gospel with two public displays of love for Jesus. Both of them are dramatic. But that’s where the similarity ends. The Great Entrance into Jerusalem is a flashy joyous occasion filled with expectation and hope. It is like the springtime of the baseball season. The excitement around Jesus’ arrival is in anticipation of liberation from the Roman occupation and the establishment of an independent homeland. Jesus is seen as the one to make all this happen. I can almost see people wearing lapel buttons that say “Win with Jesus.” But Jesus’ message and mission has been misunderstood all along, even by his own disciples. The liberation, the salvation that Jesus is to usher in is not political. When this reality begins to sink in, the peoples’ great excitement turns out to be just a prelude to their great disappointment. The crowds have projected their goals and desires onto Jesus without really absorbing what his message is all about. When those hopes are dashed then Jesus becomes expendable. Love fades.

The other dramatic expression of love for Jesus in this morning’s Gospel is of Mary anointing Jesus with a large amount of expensive ointment. Oh how different is this sign of love from that of the crowd. Whether we take the version in John or that in the synoptics, the dramatic gesture carries the same message. This is an outpouring of love, a human expression of love that mirrors God’s love for us, a love that comes with no strings attached. Some commentators have asserted that the amount of ointment used was a lifetime supply. The other gospel writers say the woman was carrying this ointment in an alabaster jar, again to emphasize the value of the contents. Giving in a loving way without regard for the cost is the gospel image. And it doesn’t have to be something expensive, one day last week at Matins we read the gospel passage in Mark about the widow’s Temple offering of two small coins as compared to the large gifts from the wealthy. Jesus told his disciples that what she gave was more valuable than the gifts of the wealthy because she gave all she had.

What is the experience of love that we are to draw from these two gospel images of love? Both the crowds with Jesus at Jerusalem and Mary with her gift of expensive ointment for Jesus came away from their encounter with Jesus with some kind of experience. Members of the crowd may have left that scene buoyed with a new sense of excitement and energy around their hoped-for coming liberation. Mary may simply have felt joy at being in Jesus’ presence and contentment at being able to give him something special. For the members of the crowd, their energy will soon dissipate as their expectations fade. But for Mary, her joy was in the moment, not in anticipation of some future gain. Her joy was in giving, for the crowd it was in receiving. No wonder it could not be sustained.

To experience love we have to give it without projecting our own expectations on the outcome. As we join with Jesus in his passion journey this week, let us begin by pondering how we might learn from this week to practice detached love; love that is detached from expectations, love that is not just conveying our projections onto another but simply taking joy in the presence of the other.

When you give another a helping hand without expecting something in return, think of it as helping Jesus carry the cross, he’s too weak to return the favor.

When you take the time to offer refreshment and hospitality to another who cannot return the favor, think of it as giving the sponge to Jesus so that he can take a little sip, he can’t come down from the cross and serve you.

When you take the time to offer a word of consolation to someone who is sick or grieving, think of it as being with Jesus as he is weakening on the cross, he’s in no condition to be much of a conversationalist for you.

Think of love as the gift that cannot be returned. God gave his only begotten Son, no strings attached.
Christ is in our midst!

Can you drink the cup?

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Scripture Reading: Mt 20:17-28

Reflections from a Monk

Cup is a three-letter word that can convey so many different meanings and images ranging from a simple unit of measurement to a sign of marital commitment. The expression “cuppa” is unmistakably referring to coffee. At New Year’s Eve we may sing the Scottish song Auld Lang Syne from a Robert Burns poem which refers to a “cup of kindness.” And let’s not forget the Stanley Cup for our ice hockey fans, the game’s famous championship trophy. So cup can be a straight forward physical object or a physical reality that can be used to point to a symbolic reality.

In this evening’s Gospel, when Jesus asks the sons of Zebedee if they can drink the cup that he is going to drink, he is not speaking literally about being forced to drink from a poisoned cup of wine, for example, an image we find in the Old Testament and the Psalms. Instead he is asking them if they are truly prepared to suffer as he is going to suffer. They immediately say yes, but they really do not realize what they are saying yes to. But they will find out during this week of Christ’s passion. And so will we. Christ is committed to us, but can we believe it?

As we journey through Holy Week we and Christ’s friends will find our commitment to Jesus and our belief in the promise of his message challenged over and over again. We will see Jesus abandoned by the once cheering crowds, disowned by his closest disciples, hauled into court and sentenced to death and then jeered at and spat upon and finally nailed to the cross to die like a common criminal. Jesus remained steadfast through it all, forgiving all.

In this morning’s Gospel we saw two public displays of love for Jesus. Both of them were dramatic. But that’s where the similarity ends. Mary expressed her love for Jesus by pouring on him expensive ointment without regard to the cost and without expecting anything in return. On the other hand, the Great Entrance into Jerusalem is a flashy joyous occasion filled with expectation and hope. The excitement around Jesus’ arrival is in anticipation of liberation from the Roman occupation and the establishment of an independent homeland. Jesus is seen as the one to make all this happen. I can almost see people wearing lapel buttons that say “Win with Jesus.” But Jesus’ message and mission has been misunderstood all along, even by his own disciples. The liberation, the salvation, that Jesus is to usher in is not political. When this reality begins to sink in, the peoples’ great excitement turns out to be just a prelude to their great disappointment. The crowds have projected their own goals and desires onto Jesus without really absorbing what his message is all about. When those hopes are dashed then Jesus becomes expendable.

How easy it is for us to fall into that same trap, both in our ordinary life experiences and in our faith expectations. Jesus is the answer to all our problems, unless, of course, the answer is not what we want, then he has failed. We may enter into prayer in times of emergency or trial hoping to escape from a tight spot, only to find out that escape is not what happens and then, when the quick fix has failed, we abandon prayer. Yet, strength in times of trial is rooted in knowing, through a life of prayer and faith, that we are accompanied on that journey. Holy Week invites us to experience with Jesus a journey through difficult times assured that we are not alone. It is a call to steadfastness that begins with Palm Sunday. Jesus passion is a journey through pain, despair, and doubt to a place of trust in God’s love that infuses the resurrection.

Holy Week is filled with contrasting symbols that invite us to ponder, through the passion of Christ, the quandaries in our own life’s journey.

This morning we saw two contrasting images of love, one giving without recompense and the other giving mainly lip service in the hope that collective expectations will be fulfilled.

To experience love we have to give it without projecting our own expectations on the outcome. As we join with Jesus in his passion journey this week, let us begin by pondering how we might learn from this week to practice detached love; love that is detached from expectations, love that is not just conveying our projections onto another but simply taking joy in the presence of the other.

When you give another a helping hand without expecting something in return, think of it as helping Jesus carry the cross, he’s too weak to return the favor.

When you take the time to offer refreshment and hospitality to another who cannot return the favor, think of it as giving the sponge to Jesus so that he can take a little sip, he can’t come down from the cross and serve you.

When you take the time to offer a word of consolation to someone who is sick or grieving, think of it as being with Jesus as he is weakening on the cross, he’s in no condition to be much of a conversationalist for you.

Think of love as the gift that cannot be returned. God gave his only begotten Son, no strings attached.

Tonight and then on Thursday the cup is used to convey two contrasting images. First, the bitter cup of life that reminds us of the trials and tribulations that we all experience and then on Thursday the Eucharistic cup, the healing cup of life, the source of our salvation. Like the Sons of Zebedee, to be followers of Christ, we too must drink the bitter cup he is to drink, but we also can drink the cup of life that he left with us that keeps us connected to Christ and reminds us that through it all: Christ is in our midst.

April 13, 2008

Sunday of Lazarus and Dives

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Scripture Reading: Is. 58:6-11; Js. 2:1-5, 12, 13; Lk. 16:19-31

Reflections from a Monk

Many popular Blues songs grew out of the tradition of black spirituals. They draw in everyone present, very powerfully, a lot like what happens in the churches they grew out of. I found a Bobby Bland tune from the 1960’s that seems just right after hearing the parable of Dives and Lazarus. It goes like this:

Forget about your troubles,
Forget all about your sorrows,
You’re a beggar today, a king tomorrow.
Baby, don’t you worry when things go wrong,
Lift up your voices
And help me sing this song!

You got to reap just what you sow;
That old saying is true; and again
You got to reap just what you sow;
That old saying is true;
Like you mistreat someone,
Someone gonna mistreat you.

Experience and religion and spirituality all describe this law of balance in nature: Go to one extreme and you bounce back to the other; the pendulum swings, back and forth, back and forth. Where can we find a middle way, “Stasis,” a meeting point of the opposites?

In the Gospel parable we’ve just listened to certainly none of us identify with poor Lazarus: ironically his name means God has helped, from the original El-eazar. But then, can we really identify with Dives, whose name is only a word that means a rich person. Or somehow are we partly each of them?

Sometimes maybe we do feel rich and blessed with royal abundance. Other times we might have felt like the world is against us and we can barely make it.

Maybe Lazarus felt somehow what those blues lyrics describe—not being able to do anything about life’s ups and downs—as he sat there in a heap on the ground, along with the dogs. And for his part, Dives certainly had other things on his mind. He probably was tough-minded in business and politics. Dressing formally and banqueting were part of his life-style, and he loved it, which is just fine! And maybe he felt he deserved his life of plenty and success,

When the time of reckoning came, though, he found himself begging for water. “Tell Lazarus to serve me just a drop of water!” — What is going on here? Dives is burning up and alone and isolated by his own fault because he ignored Lazarus, who was sitting there at the gate in full view. He doesn’t say “I’m sorry!” He doesn’t ask for forgiveness for his hard-heartedness, and for ignoring the word of God. Still the great manager, he thinks of his own brothers: “Tell them before it’s too late!” But they, like he, are deaf to the messages they already have.

A theologian recently said, “Sometimes it takes a catastrophe to wake us up!” Waking up means seeing how it really is, opening our eyes and minds.
It’s really up to me, as the song says:

“Like you mistreat someone,
Someone gonna mistreat you.”

Whether we experience times of abundance or destitution depends on an infinite number of things. But what do we do with what we have? When we are rich in any way in talents, skills, money, things, luck, success, and honor: do we hoard them only for our own reward and enjoyment? Do we greedily hold onto these graces and gifts only for our own security, or do we let them flow through us for the benefit and good of our neighbor, or children or stranger or alien? Do we even see these people and respect them? No more judging by appearances, or separating those who deserve our love from those whom we can ignore.

To hear the message and see means the light goes on for us, we rise from sleep, we truly live, the Holy Spirit enters, the arms of Abraham open, paradise is regained, the new Jerusalem descends, life more abundant is revealed, the butterfly emerges from its chrysalis, the mind changes, the heart is transformed.

When I hear about Lazarus with the dogs hanging around him and cleaning his sores, I think of the Psalm where the wild dogs tear at the holy prophet’s dead hands and I think of the crucifixion outside the walls of the city — not a sight for polite company.— Then I think of the purple garments of Dives, reminding me of the crimson robe of Christ during his passion and death; and the banquet of the rich man—is this a stretch—reminds me of the Eucharistic banquet but in a very different context, where everyone is invited! I think of all who became followers of Jesus and the disciples — the slaves and the poor and the marginalized, together with those who were wealthy and leaders and notables who followed him.

The Eucharist that we all have been a part of is the miracle that brings opposites together. It is the flowering of Christian community. In Christ all are meant to be united; at our Eucharistic assembly we become one body and blood. This is what takes us beyond the ups and downs of fate, because in Christ all are rich and poor, well and sick, family and stranger. This is truly living and sharing in authentic love and respect for one another.

This event enables us to say “Christ is in our midst!”

April 6, 2008

Love with Entire Being

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Scripture Reading: Is 59:12-20, Rm 13:8b-14, Lk 10:25-37

Reflections from a Nun

At a large soup kitchen in western Penn a business man walked in with a check in hand. He asked the nun in charge that arrangements could be made to charter buses to take all the children to an indoor water park for the day and on the way back to stop and buy them new shoes. I don’t know how many children there were or how he knew the nuns could take care of it. I would have liked to be able to question him on why this particular request and why now and how come.

So I don’t actually know what motivated this man but hearing about his action reminds me of the Samaritan story. We don’t actually know what motivated the Samaritan either. Nevertheless, Jesus used the story to illustrate who one’s neighbor might be and what lengths one can go to, to love.

Of interest to me is the original question of the lawyer of “What must I do to gain eternal life?” The lawyer’s motivation, Scripture already indicates, was to test Jesus to try to trip Jesus into answering in such a manner as to be able to find fault with him. But Jesus has him quote the Mosaic Law to answer his own question. Loving God with all our heart, soul, strength and mind pretty much describes every part of us. It is with our entire being that the Mosaic law indicated one must love God. Whether it is a law or not, why do we love God?

Can we, as humans, love God for no other reason than that God is Goodness itself and not for any particular thing we might get out of it, like eternal life or wealth or health? Can we love God with our whole being and love our neighbor not only as well as we love ourselves but as Jesus said at another time, more than we love ourselves?

For some of us the promise of eternal life or a long life or a happy life might cause us to love. For some of us being told that God loves us prompts a loving response in return. For others, looking at the world around us might cause a response similar to God’s own as we read in Genesis. “God saw that it was good”, the it being creation. Though suffering and evil seem to be part of creation there are so many other aspects of creation that we cannot help but be inspired by, lifted up by and grateful for the universe. There is a consciousness of the needy in most human hearts. All the evil in the world does not begin to match all the good we find.

You have all no doubt heard the saying, “How can we say we love God who we do not see if we do not love our neighbor who we do see.” The Greek word for neighbor is plesios and literally means ‘one who is close’. A German word Nachbar refers to ‘one who is near’. Nowadays we hear the phrase global awareness and an aspect of that is the awareness that all humans share the same nature. That awareness can help us to view everyone and anyone as our neighbor. All people on the globe can be viewed as near or close.

The criterion for the depth of our love for God, no matter what we feel about how little or how much we love God, is the measure of our charity, our compassion for our neighbor. Charitable people see another in pain or need and make a contribution to assuage it. Compassionate people see pain and take it on as their own. These people see a problem and give a part of themselves to try and resolve it, as did Luke’s Samaritan and the business man in PA.

Let us strive to listen with our whole being to the real needs of others.
Glory be to Jesus Christ!

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